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Resolving Conflict Sooner (Yes it is Possible)

Bring Out Their Best Side So They Can See Yours

Act as if he means well, especially if he appears not to — not for his sake, but for yours. The more you can look to someone else's positive intent, the greater the likelihood you can respond to her comments before she adds more or elaborates.

Follow this easy-to-remember four-step process when responding to criticism. Remember, it is never comfortable to hear… Continue

Posted on September 10, 2008 at 10:30am —

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How Non Sequiturs Led to a Book Deal and So Can You .......

... in less than a year.

Hear the collective sigh from writers everywhere in reading this news.

Several people have edited books on others' bloopers, very short stories and secrets. And politics provides rich fodder for the humor found in mangled language and actions of public figures.

Yet, this past February, freelance writer, Mathew Honan, was the first to see the opportunity in a tongue-in-cheek chronic… Continue

Posted on September 9, 2008 at 10:30am —

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Way to Inspire Your Clients to Refer Others to You

Want short-cuts for turning happy clients into avid fans who refer colleagues to you?

Read Robert Middleton's blog, then read the InfoGuru Marketing Manual. In practical, pithy language, he puts into practice some of the persuasion methods described in Robert Cialdini's classic book, Influence, and reinforced in his new book, with Noah J. Goldstein and Steve J. Martin, Yes!: 50 Scientifically Proven Ways to B… Continue

Posted on September 8, 2008 at 10:30am —

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What Parts of a Face Most Influence First Impressions?

What make us wary or trusting within seconds of seeing a stranger?

Surprisingly few factors according to a recent study by two Princeton psychology researchers. We are most likely to trust someone who has, “a U-shaped mouth and eyes that form an almost surprised look.” At the other extreme are faces that seem angry. In those faces, “the edges of the mouth curl down and the eyebrows point down at the center.… Continue

Posted on September 7, 2008 at 10:30am —

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“Whether your book is about pregnancy, porn ….

… or plastic surgery mistakes” your writing doesn’t end when your book’s done, says Isobella Jade, author of Almost 5’4”. Next, one must get the attention of a publisher, perhaps as Jade did, using free online tools.

Jade was a homeless model. She wrote her memoir in an Apple Store. She wrote on Fridays when she had time off her job. First she self-published it through Amazon.com's BookSurge program. Next sh… Continue

Posted on September 6, 2008 at 10:30am —

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At 11:30am on August 18, 2007, Kare Anderson said…
If thi is the Age of Engagement our ability to find the sweet spot of mutual opportunity and grace is key to becoming happier and higher-performing together.

More than education, IQ or even money or attractiveness, our capacity to connect is essential to enjoying "the power of us" in this new, new world of unavoidable connectivity.

If you are interested in exploring the practical ways we can connect and be better together than apart, then consider joining this community. From the research on how our brains work - how we make choices, forge bonds, co-create or fall into conflict, destruction and loneliness - all grist for the mill here.

Please consider sharing what you have discovered. We'd enjoy reading your pithy, helpful posts with references to scientists, authors, personal experiences that support those insights. We welcome images, sayings, questions - all that can help us be better together than apart.

I look forward to learning from and with you.

In a civilization when love is
gone we turn to justice and when
justice is gone we turn to power
and when power is gone we
turn to violence.

Failure is usually no more fatal
than success is permanent.

Opportunity is often inconvenient.

Resenting someone is
a way of never leaving them.

Look to their positive intent, especially when they
appear to have none.

Whoever most vividly
characterizes what a situation
is about usually determines how
others see it, talk about it, and
make decisions about it.

Speak like it tastes good.

Offer verbal snapshots that
penetrate the mind and the gut
in an instant then linger, leaving
a bright after image.

If you are arguing for more
than ten minutes, consider that
you may not be arguing about
your true conflict.

How we do our tasks may have more impact
than the tasks themselves.

You only and always
have three choices
in any situation:
change, accept or leave.

Remember the many
compartments of the heart,
the seed of what is
possible. So much of who
we are is defined by
the places we hold for each
other. For it is not our ingenuity
that sets us apart, but our
capacity for love, the
possibility our way will
be lit by grace. Our hearts
prisms, chiseling out the
colors of pure light.
 
 

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